Have you ever wanted to fart so bad, but you were in public? You can feel your body trying to be natural enough, pushing to get you to pass that tormenting gas. So you sit there praying that no one will crack a joke or startle you because, heaven forbid, you will just spray them with a new scent. You pore over the possibilities of you farting. Will it be the stinky one? Or the very loud one? Or both? And just as you’re thinking these through, you sneeze. And out comes the fart.
That is me and men on Facebook today. I have a serious problem with you. Sadly, this is a menace that’s also getting into females. But I am no man, so let me speak as a woman who has been affected by men. I have tried holding in this fart, but no. here it is. Loud and clear.
First of all, just because a girl accepts your friend request, it doesn’t mean she’s looking for dates or relationships or flings. It may happen, yes, but not in the nonsensical mathogothanio way you’re approaching today. “Thanks for accepting. I need a girlfriend in my life, and I believe it is you.” Shindwe. What happened to knowing people first?
Secondly, tafadhali, if you reeeaally want to compliment a girl, compliment her. Do not scare her away or put the dread of Satan and purgatory in her veins. Complements are supposed to make one feel good, not question where their ancestors went wrong. “Hi. You look really good.” It is simple, and very okay. “Hi. You look gorgeous. What do you do other than being sexy?” Please, Jesus did not die for this. “Hey beibe, I love the photo. Can I photograph you sometime?” This is how serial killers on Criminal Minds start off.
Then there are the conversations you want to try, but you try so hard it’s repelling. “What is your name?” sigh. You sent ME a friend request. My account has a real name. Whatchu mean what’s my name? “Hey. You are very pretty. Can we make love?” Shindwe kabisa. That will not be making love. It will be the Devil collecting rent, pension, fine, and all other monetary fees from your soul. “Twende whatsapp please. Sina messenger so we can’t talk well” is just a very lame excuse. Why embarrass your mother? “Unatumia number gani whatsapp?” do not get mad when someone replies “natumia yangu”.
Number four, we love dates. You realize I’ve counted like a Kikuyu. Lol. We love dates. But ask us out like the emblems we are. Not the “uko wapi” syndrome or the very new “There’s a new coffee shop in town, I wanted to try. Si twende” I am not an uber. Go.
Dear men, we love you. So please, choose good mannerisms. And respect. And cut off the mushy names. We don’t know you. We may want to know you. Do not ruin this for us and complain Kenyan women don’t pay attention to their men. Is it possible to coexist in peace, please? If she didn’t reply to your inbox, do not resend another hi. She saw it. And is ignoring you, bruh.
My dear man who had the faith to tell me “I am becoming your fan” I shed tears for you. Not crocodile tears. Real tears. You had so much potential. I am neither a musician nor a famous actress. And Nairobi is too cold. Fans are unacceptable.
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hahaha. I’m sure where Jesus is right now has had too many face palms, too disappointed with this generation and hawezi kubali taking another Nail for us
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Haha the ones He took were more than enough 😂😂
Thanks for reading darling.
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and you had to use “hagrid”. I feel you sister.
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Haha aki it’s is so sad 😔
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😂😂😂😂😂😂Ah. Qui , you kill me daily. This one i relate with. Ati you look familiar. Have we meet?. This has to be unchristian 😂😂
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Hahaha. Yes. We have met. In the nightmare you had last night 😂😂😂
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😂😂😂😂Punchline for the next one that tries that stunt
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Well put my darling,Jesus is weeping all over again at the things these men are doing..Nice read.
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Haha if only He had a plan B. Thank you for the feedback dear.
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They obviously need some lessons from our Nigerian friends that we love to avoid.
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Finally!! Someone who has spoken the truth! There’s a reason Naija men are more eligible. Haha.
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This is very true
However I am always afraid of generalizing , there are honest men there who still have some decorum, it is those men we need to encourage more , hoping that their nature would saturate the society .No one is born knowing how to be a man. We learn the right ways from good men around us. In the past, that meant a literal father. But, the crisis of masculinity is the crisis of fatherhood. In fact, UNICEF cites absentee fathers as the main driver behind the biggest social issues of our time. And “‘fatherless’ doesn’t just mean a father who isn’t there,” he explains. “It’s a father who’s not engaged.
i could say more about “The Crisis of Masculinity”
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True words right there, Frank. And encourage them we shall 😊😊
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And Nairobi is too cold. Fans are unacceptable….that killed me!!
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Hahaha. Why subject us to more cold? Thanks for reading.
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😂😂😂😂😂 I see men on Facebook arw still the same. Very good read.
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Haha. I doubt they’ll ever change 😂
Thank you, Shiku.
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A bit supseirrd it seems to simple and yet useful.
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Very useful. Thank you for reading, Jacki 😊
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me semble que je m’ennuie de l&psouq;éroque où les filles se battaient entre elles pour moi. Asteure faut que je me batte pour en avoir une.
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I love the 7 in 1 Garden Activity Cube. What a stunning toy to keep in the lounge room for educational play! My son would spend hours turning the knobs, and moving the beads!
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